Of course, Nathaniel's moving to a new class hasn't turned out to be as easy as expected. Among the big issues are things Amanda and I have to get used to:
-- They asked whether we wanted Nathaniel to wear a shirt when playing in the sprinkler outside so the other kids wouldn't see his chest scar. We had never ever begun to give this a thought, but now we're worried he'll get self-conscious about it.
-- They asked whether there was any potty training yet. He's only 18 months! Isn't that way too early? (His doctor said yes, it was too early).
-- The snacks. In his first week, he had far too many days involving Munchkins and cheese curls. As far as I'm concerned, he'll eat those later in life whether we want him to or not. At this age, we should be encouraging good diet habits.
Then there's his issues: He's definitely a little scared of the change ... sometimes. When Amanda drops him off, Nathaniel clings to her like crazy. He cries and refuses to be put down and just grabs on. In the end, Amanda is left giving him to a teacher and getting away quickly. Conversely, when I drop him off, he generally takes a couple of seconds to let go of my hand (I squirm out of his grip a little), then he runs off and starts playing. (Little boys and their moms, huh?)
Anyway, by the time we pick him up (and it doesn't matter who picks him up), he doesn't want to leave. Even if it's Amanda picking him up (like yesterday), she has to pull him away from the toys and the kids all having a blast together.
I'm sure we'll all get into a better pattern soon enough.